Men, learn how to behave on dating and personals sites.
Being a man and also being the owner of a dating page
myself I have to tell all my fellow men
that you are chasing all the women away. Most of you anyway. Women are keen on how we behave
because most of us all behave the identical
way on dating sites. Here is a list of DOs and DONTS to help keep
the women at these sites and to help you get some responses.
1) DONT copy and paste 25 exactly identical
emails and send them off. Women see right through this and it gets you no-where.
Ever wonder why you do not
get responses? Thats the first reason. DO send individual emails and put some thought into contacting
women on these dating sites. REMEMBER: women get 100 emails a day from all sorts of guys. If your e-mail has no heart then you just
go over-looked.
2) DO spell check your email, women are so turned off by a guy that cannot spell it shows you are either stupid or just lazy.
The identical
thing goes for grammar. Take some instant to apprehend it
right guys and you will get a response.
3) DONT choose a nickname that has a sexual innuendo (unless you are on an adult dating page
). Remember, women usually
like men with some class and Roger_69sU shows that you just want a one night stand. Try something more clever.
4) DONT contact single women if you are married. It is a waste of their measure
and is an insult. DO read their profile and see if
they are interested in married men.
5) DONT lie. DONT lie. DONT lie. Enough said.
6) DO not send women pictures of your "privates". They will ask if they want to see that. DO send them a nice picture that
shows your sense of humor or style.
7) DONT just send an email after you see their picture. DO read their profile first.
8) DONT harass women that are not interested. This ruins the site for everyone and could very well get you banned from the dating
site forever. Many sites now have reporting features for this very reason. DO treat all others on the page
as though you were talking
in human
to them. You would harass them to their face would you?
This is just a small list of some of the incredibly stupid things guys are doing on Internet dating and singles sites. Now of course there
are some dazzling guys out there that are honestly looking for a nice date or relationship so any women reading this, just bear with us,
we men are slowing catching up and figuring it out.
Hope this article helps.